For Newtown.
Categories: #besomebody, Current Events, Leadership, Life, Motivation, Principles
I’m angry.
Not at you. Or him. Or them. But at us.
How did we let this happen? How did it come this far without us taking to the streets and breaking down the system? Why haven’t we looted every lawmaker and vandalized every bullshit speech? Set fire to false promises. Confronted our own carelessness. Transformed upset into uprising, and right into riot…
Shopping malls. Movie theaters. Kindergarten classrooms. Place of worship… Our sanctuaries are no longer safe.
The most peaceful and public parts of our society are being hijacked by homewreckers that we’ve been unknowingly feeding.
It’s bad.
But it’s not time for panic. It’s time for action.
It’s time to attack all the issues that funnel together to create the tornado of tension that destroys a small town in quiet Connecticut.
Gun reform needs to happen now. I’m not saying to ban all firearms or to prevent people’s right to protect themselves or their families. We should feel empowered to keep our loved ones safe. But you don’t need to do that with semiautomatic weapons and assault rifles. I know the bad guys will still find ways to get guns. But let’s make it harder on them, even if it means making it harder on us in the process. Let’s close the loopholes. Let’s stop wasting time on the details we disagree on and put all our energy into eliminating the one thing we all want to see disappear: mass shootings in our country. Other nations have done it. It’s our time.
Mental illness needs to be brought out of the darkness. We’ve buried this with embarrassment for too long. We’ve pointed fingers instead of joining hands. There are people who are sick in this country. They need our help before they hurt themselves or others. We need an intervention of understanding so we can relieve pain instead of reliving it.
And most of all, we need to stand up, stare at ourselves, and acknowledge we’re creating a culture of violence. We’re breeding bloodshed with kills, targets, and assassinations on everything from t-shirts to video games. We’re desensitizing our youth to destruction. We are making it easier than ever to pull the trigger, removing the remorse and reshaping the reality, one movie release at a time. All of us are responsible for this. All of us are on the hook for fixing it. If we like violence, let’s beat the shit out of the problems that plague us. Let’s fight the good fights instead.
And what about the other issues? What of the other questions that are too heavy to ask or too hard to swallow? What if these young white shooters were black? Or Muslim? Or women? Or if these shootings happened in Compton instead of Connecticut? How would that change things? Why would it? How f*cked up is that?
I’m angry, but anger doesn’t save lives. Action does. These are our neighbors. These are our kids. This is our responsibility. Enough has been enough. It’s time to evolve.
We have to stand up, speak out, and surge forward, even though we’re scared of what we’ll see. Even though we’re afraid of the aftermath. Even though it will get ugly. Even though our own fingerprints will be found around the crime scenes.
It’s not ok to wait anymore. Not when 20 beautiful babies are taken too soon.
It’s bad. But we can fix it. We will fix it. For Portland and Aurora and Oak Creek. And Newtown. And next town… We have to fix it.
Children are dying. Communities are crying.
America, it’s time.
Dedicated to the victims, families, communities, first responders, and heroes of the mass shootings that have shaken our society this year. Sending thoughts, prayers, and a promise for action.

My thoughts and prayers for the families affected by the shootings in Newtown.. it is sad how people can go to such extents.. we need to come up with ways to eradicate such crimes, not just in America but across the globe, all the place being affected by such criminal wrongdoings, places like Palestine, Pakistan, Syria, Iraq, Iran and the list goes on. We need to start acting now to provide a better and a safer future for our coming generations.. Let us all contribute towards making this world a better place for our children, starting from today by spreading love, tolerance and sharing our problems with our loved ones. Anger indeed cant save lives, but action does.. Start acting today!
Yes, Maryum! Sometimes we feel so helpless because change seems too much, and too big to make happen… but one voice inspires another. One act propels more action… When we are loud, and we move in the same direction, we can all collectively bring forth change… We witnessed this in the streets of Egypt and Tunisia and across the Arab Spring this past year… it’s possible to create change. We just need to commit to talk and walk and act, together…
thanks for reading,
Kash
I like it and I totally agree! I especially agree with asking ourselves the tough “questions” because I feel if the “who” and the “where” were different, then actions and reactions might be different. I also believe we as Americans have desensitized ourselves saying that everyone is “sick”. No some people are just angry, pissed off, and ill-tempered with little or no respect for human life. Some incidents have involved those that are mentally ill and some who are mad think that others need to share their pain. Either way, we need to keep semi-automatic weapons out of their hands. I am a Texan through and through and I will always support my right to bear arms. However, some weapons are not meant for public use. IJS….when it took 15 minutes to reload a gun or when we could only get guns where one could fit into the chamber with 3 or 4 in the magazine, there were less mass shootings. But then again, that was back during a time when prayer was still in our schools too and people taught their kids gun safety and to respect human life.
$ – well written…you are a smart guy whose opinion I respect. I would encourage you to consider reading this blog post http://bit.ly/T9B7iI . It’s from a few months ago, before this horrible tragedy, but I think it speaks pragmatically about our ability to deal with this issue. It also highlights the concept of ‘fallacy of misleading vividness”. Every sane person in this great world of ours felt an immense amount of sorrow and sadness for this extremely vivid tragedy against innocent, helpless victims – particularly those that have been blessed as parents. Two of my three kids are the age of these victims and events like this certainly remind you how fortunate you truly are.
So the question is, what can we do and how effective can it be. Despite this horrific event, the chances of anything happening like this to us or anyone we know is infinitesimal. More kids die each year in school bus crashes, accidental drownings, etc…the list goes on. I don’t see any realistic was to legislate our way out of these massacres. Even if an assault weapons ban is implemented, politically it is certain to contain a grandfather clause (no way politically to pass a law requiring confiscation of these guns and even if there was the bad guys wouldn’t turn theirs in). What this means is that the hundreds of thousands of ”assault weapons” however they are defined will still be out there and gun companies will be banned from producing new ones. That’s the fundamental issue. While I agree in principle that a 16 round magazine isn’t needed for hunting, etc. I know that a lot of bad guys out there have them, and if an intruder breaks into my home and I’m forced to defend my family against a threat I want to be on an even playing field.
The reality is that there is evil in the world…ignoring it does not make it go away. You’ve probably heard of the much worse school massacre in Michigan last century using TNT….if a crazy man wants to inflict this type of carnage he will find a way..either via alternate means or tracking down one of these illegal weapons.
I don’t trust the government to tell me what I can and can’t own any more than I trust them to spend my money. You could argue that a number of items should be banned that have no ‘reasonable’ use. Cigarettes kill if used correctly, and can’t be used to defend yourself. Hummers should have been banned…no one NEEDS a Hummer which is a military vehicle….you should just buy a Toyota or Chevy. I could give a number of examples here, but I think you get the point.
At the end of the day….we ALL want to keep these horrific events from every happening. We just need to be very aware of the unintended consequences of our sincere attempts to solve a problem. If you look at many of the blunders our government and society have experienced, almost all stem from unintended consequences of well intended efforts.
I’ll not speak about your competence, the write-up merely disgusting